You were forced to cave to his misogynist, entitled thinking. I understand how he manipulated you saying “Tracy’s clients are so much worse than mine”. Aargh!!
This guy is the classic sweater vest therapist you talk about on your blog. I don’t know how you counteract his assessment that “every situation is different” mentality! I know you both tried but it’s an uphill battle.
But we can’t stop trying to change the narrative! Cheaters are not redeemable…they don’t want to “do the work” that Andrew says is necessary (but never happens in reality). As you say, why would they want to change because cake is delicious! There might be a random one night stand cheater who regrets and redeems themselves but it’s .001% of the cheater population.
Please don’t stop trying to explain what this is and how damaging it is to everyone involved. Thank you Tracy and Sarah for all you do!!
May 4, 2025 by Mary Gallagher on This Website