I can’t thank Tracy Schorn and Sarah Gorrell enough for giving chumps (yes, us) yet another place to feel seen, heard, and understood. This podcast isn’t some one-sided rant—it’s a lifeline for those of us who have spent years being told we were crazy, too sensitive, or not trying hard enough.
Tracy’s book Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life helped me put the pieces back together. And yes, she calls it like it is—because cheaters don’t “grow from their mistakes,” they just hide them better. That’s not cynicism—it’s a pattern. A painful, global one.
And the guests? Actual experts. Sandra L. Brown, MA, whose book How to Spot a Dangerous Man was a godsend. Licensed psychologists, psychiatrists, trauma-informed specialists. This isn’t just opinion—it’s grounded in real experience and real science, even if it doesn’t make cheaters look good.
If someone finds this podcast “childish,” maybe it’s because accountability isn’t their cup of tea. But for those of us who have clawed our way out of the fog, Tracy and Sarah are heroes. Thank you both for reminding me I’m not alone—and never was.
